My Story of how I became a Relationship Crisis Coach
Puya Delavar
Husband – Father – Founder – Coach – Friend
Background
I was fortunate to spend many years living in different countries, including France, the UK, and Germany. This rich exposure to diverse cultures, people, and perspectives profoundly shaped how I see the world and approach both personal and professional relationships. It sparked my passion for relationship management, which has become the cornerstone of my career. Despite the challenges of constant uprooting and adapting to new cultures, these experiences instilled in me one of my most valuable skills: to always stay solution-oriented.
After completing my degree in London and travelling extensively for work, my journey eventually led me to where I am today, happily settled with my wonderful family.
Past Struggles
There was a time when I found myself deeply struggling to maintain balance. As a husband and father of two, I found that my career’s success began to overshadow my personal life, leading me into a phase where I was reacting to circumstances rather than actively shaping my own path.
Even though my career was thriving, I felt trapped in a hamster wheel, constantly moving, but at the heavy expense of my personal life. The disproportionate prioritisation of work and chasing success pushed everything else aside. While it seemed like there simply weren’t enough hours in the day, the real issue was my misplaced focus.
Inevitably, the distance between my wife and I grew wider every day. The home that was once my refuge became a space filled with tension and unspoken resentment. Intimacy faded, replaced by a cold detachment. I found myself staying late at work to avoid an environment where my wife and I merely neglected each-other. Anything to escape the uncomfortable reality.
The imbalance I was living created a storm of uncertainty, and for the first time, I realised that despite all the financial success, I was at risk of losing what mattered most to me, my family and my sense of purpose.
In that difficult moment, my solution-oriented mindset, one that had served me well throughout my life, kicked in once again. I realized that a fundamental change was needed, and I was the only one who could make it happen. This marked the beginning of a profound shift in my approach to life and relationships, ultimately saving my marriage.
Present Mission
25 years of experience in relationship management, and a solution-oriented mindset has forged the foundation for my calling. Today, my mission is to help others in similar situations take the steps they need to regain control of their lives and rescue their relationships.
I’ve captured the core essence of the insights of my personal and professional journey into a programme designed for those at risk of losing their relationships due to the demands of their careers. Through Enricher, I offer a solution that rebuilds trust, repairs bonds, and forges lasting, meaningful relationships, all without compromising career success. This is the foundation of holistic success.
The truth is, success doesn’t have to come at the cost of your family.
I know firsthand how high the stakes are, and that’s why I’m committed to helping others before it’s too late. Imagine a life where you can excel professionally while feeling deeply connected to those you love. It’s not just a dream. It’s achievable, and I’m here to help you make it a reality.